The 10 Commandments of Friendship by Jerome and Marla McCarthy

10cof_smallHave a friend, family member, or co-worker who is driving you crazy? Having a challenging time figuring out why a relationship in your life went left or completely ended?

The 10 Commandments of Friendship by Jerome and Marla McCarthy was written for you.

When people realize they have inadvertently mismanaged their friendships, they can often trace it back to a lack of wisdom regarding their behavior and how to properly conduct themselves. The truth is we all can afford to be better at handling and nurturing our relationships. Whether family, friend, work or romantic, any relationship can benefit from The 10 Commandments of Friendship. You’ll not only learn how to improve your communication, but how to develop, maintain and heal all of your relationships, one commandment at a time!

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Acquire the Career You Desire

acquire careerLife experiences and circumstances can at times dampen one’s belief that they can build or create the life they desire. The barriers and obstacles that you experience or perceive in your life can seem limiting and insurmountable. The truth is that you were born with everything you need to construct the existence you desire, and the future you’ve dreamed of. Here are five ways that you can take action toward achieving your personal, career, and financial goals and dreams.

1. Use your time wisely. We all have numerous demands on our time and energy. However, in most cases there are moments that we can all consciously decide to make better choices in order to open up time in our day to start working toward our goals. Even if you  only begin with 5-15 minutes, those few moments each day can lead to the complete transformation of your life. One positive change can lead to you making more positive changes. Therefore, do something everyday to develop the knowledge and skills you need for success. Once you set aside or reserve time to enhance your life, use it to do homework, improve your skills, prepare your resume, prepare for interviews, or build a business and become an entrepreneur. Find something you love, enjoy, and are passionate about to work toward so that you can look forward to and be excited about setting aside this special time to build the life you want. What can you move around or change in your daily schedule to create at least 5-15 minutes at the beginning or end of each day to start working toward living your dreams?

2. Increase in education. Education is one of the most important components to success. Work toward obtaining your degree or certifications. If it is not possible at this very moment, begin educating yourself. You can develop or train your mind, increase in knowledge, boost your capabilities, and develop your character through reading and studying books, information on the internet, and other materials, independently on your own until other opportunities open up. It will be your willingness to develop your mind on your own that will increase your ability and skill level to pave the way for opportunities. Give thought and consideration to what you want, develop a plan, use all the resources around you, and increase in knowledge each day to get there. Resolve to be a lifetime learner. Do everything you can to develop your mind, enhance your communication skills, and strengthen your spirit to prepare for your future life experiences and promotions.

3. Develop connections. Circumstances in life that can cause one to end up with few or no connections that can aid them in creating, developing or re-launching their desired career. A pregnancy, time raising children, a change of location or move across or outside of the country, gaps in employment, a prolonged illness, or any extended leave of absence from work can all potentially cause you to be momentarily isolated. If this is the position you find yourself in, take steps when possible to begin connecting socially with others. Find a mentor in your area of interest who has done what you aim to do, and done it well. Talk to a career counselor or academic adviser. Volunteer in your community and create bonds with others who you share common interests. Find individuals or groups with whom you can work toward a cause or purpose that is important to you. If you can’t get out much for financial reasons, health issues, or other constraints, network online. Use the wisdom, knowledge, gifts, and skills you possess now until you can progress into other opportunities later. Associate with community and professional organizations or associations in your area of interest or field of expertise. Don’t let anything be a roadblock to your goals. One day at a time, make an effort toward connecting with others who can provide you with knowledge, wisdom, and even encouragement to achieve your highest hopes and aspirations.

4. Consider changing locations. It may be that your hometown or your current city of residence does not have the capacity or is not conducive to you achieving your goals. To make a decision about the best location for you there are a couple of questions you must ask yourself. Is where you currently live or reside the best setting for you to live your dreams? Does your current location have the most opportunities and the greatest potential for you to thrive in your area of interest? Or is there a better location in the world that may increase the chances for your success? It may be possible for you to succeed or even create a market for your niche where you’re at, but it may be necessary to consider a better location. This step may not be desirable or immediately feasible for everyone, but it does not mean that it will not be a possibility in your future. If you can’t move immediately and you desire to do so, you can start gathering information, education, connections, and eventually resources to make it your reality.

5. Develop drive and perseverance. You have to be relentless in your pursuit of your goals, because your goals and dreams depend on you and you alone. It is your determination, your gift(s), your demonstration of your trustworthiness, and your resourcefulness that will make room for you. Everyone in life experiences road blocks of some sort. It may feel like some individuals experience way more than others. However, whatever becomes a part of your life journey happens or exists because you are strong enough to handle it. Whatever you’ve been through has provided you with the strength, knowledge, wisdom, and experience to fulfill your purpose and reach your destiny. Nothing will ever be a part of your life experience that you are not strong enough to bear and overcome. Be resolved to prove to the world, but most importantly to yourself, what you are capable of. Develop an unwavering determination down in your spirit to go over, around, under, or bust straight through any barrier that attempts to stand in your path or hinder your destiny. You are the only thing limiting you. Take your life out of the hands of everyone else and place it back in your own. You were created to be an over comer.

Use every moment of each day wisely, be proactive, plan ahead, and learn all you can. Decide where you want your skill set to take you, increase in knowledge, build strong relationships by demonstrating your skill set and talent, ask for wisdom and advice when necessary, and enlist the help of others. Don’t let people who are not willing to help, those who don’t wish you well, or those who have given up on their dreams discourage you. Set your goals and achieve them anyway. One day at a time, with or without the support of those around you, you can create the life you desire!

For an excellent tool to help you build the life of your dreams check out the Create The Life You Want Now: Quarterly Goal Journal. Discover your own path to success, work toward a more balanced life, & improve your relationships. Get your copy today!

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Four key points to increase productivity in the workplace

productivityIn today’s workplace it is important that employees produce. However, this is difficult to accomplish if  managers are unable to motivate them to do so. Performance deficiencies within a company or organization are many times the result of failing to manage relationships well. When you improve relationships between management and employees, a boost in morale results and productivity increases.

The average worker spends more time with their office family than they do with their own families. This adds an interesting dichotomy to the workplace as people are investing more time, but oftentimes this time does not equate to an increase in productivity. Many circumstances outside of work lend to this lack of productivity. These stress factors can stem from health issues, societal and cultural changes, or issues revolving around a redefined family dynamic. With all these factors, how do employers keep their employees motivated while on the clock?

There is a direct correlation between improving employee/management relationships, and an increase in workplace productivity. A narrow focus on improving employee performance without enhancing workplace relationships is a futile effort.  Training provided to your employees will not mean anything if they do not have a desire to implement what they have learned. Numerous hours of management training is also no substitute for stepping in the trenches and creating a bond with your workers.  You will be ineffective at receiving the desired organizational results until you understand the value of enhancing this relationship.

Four key points for management to establish good relationships within the workplace:

1. Align your actions with your mouth. If people cannot trust you, then you cannot expect them to put forth 100% effort. .
2. Take moment to see things from their perspective
3. Don’t underestimate kindness or a friendly tone.
4. Give your employees the tools they need to perform their job.

Strive to establish a positive rapport, always have an empathetic disposition, and empower your employees. To effectively manage you must examine your thoughts toward those you manage, your words and your actions. Attempt to discern why your employees have been unmotivated to work for you. Once you answer that question, consider how you can improve or communicate better with them in order to improve their workplace performance. Sometimes this can simply be done by asking people for their opinion. When people feel you have a vested interest in them, they will be more likely to have a vested interest your company. This usually results in employees being willing to work harder and  implement your plans to increase efficiency and productivity.

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Create The Life You Want Now: Quarterly Goal Journal by Marla A. McCarthy

3D_hardback_ctlywnCreate The Life You Want Now: Quarterly Goal Journal by Marla A. McCarthy
ISBN # 978-0-9800083-3-3

Create the Life You Want Now: Quarterly Goal Journal is like having your very own life coach. It guides you in discovering your own path to success in your personal and professional life. This amazing resource will inspire you to work toward a more balanced life and improved relationships. Through goal setting and life planning, you will gain a stronger understanding of your purpose and a deeper spiritual understanding of your life journey. This journal includes a how-to guide, creative space to let your imagination run wild, self-assessment questions, self-reflective questions, journaling prompts, goal coaching, daily journal pages, a yearly to-do calendar, contact sheets for your most-valued mentors, pages for additional notes or brainstorming, and a topical scripture index. All of which will undoubtedly have a profound impact on your life. Utilizing this journal will assist you in exploring possibilities, nourishing your soul, renewing your mind, and restoring your spirit. It will aid you in building a life full of peace, love, joy and prosperity. The content within promotes action and will help keep you in a positive, focused, creative frame of mind to shoot for the stars and realize your dreams!

Discover your own path to success, and work toward a more balanced life & improved relationships. Get your copy today!

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Reviews:

5 star review on Amazon.com – By Chloe’s mommy
Most amazing goal diary ever!
I absolutely love this book and can’t say enough good things about it. I order books every week from Amazon and very rarely leave reviews but this book deserves to be praised. I have three copies of it. Since it is meant to be used every three months, I had to make sure I had enough to keep me going.I love the format of this journal. There is ample space to write your thoughts, dreams and ideas down. Questions urge you to think deeply and write what you want to accomplish. There is space to reflect on each area of life…spiritual, health, etc. Each day’s format gives you the chance to see what went right, what made you feel blessed, etc. The topical Scripture index in back is also helpful as it gives you a place to search easily and quickly in the Bible for whatever situation you may be dealing with.This book has been a driving factor for me as I started this year. It has encouraged me to take hold of my dreams and start writing things down so I can review what I did right and what needs improvement. It has helped me to stay on course and keep working toward my goals. This has been so beneficial for me, especially in light of the fact that I have a serious illness and have had too many bad days to count. Now I can review my goals and keep going and everyday is a good day because this book has been a wonderful tool and companion on my journey.

5 star review on Amazon.com – By Firestar
Thought Provoking
The idea of this goals journal is fantastic! There are plenty of thought provoking questions to get the mind pointing towards the direction you want to go: How do I envision a successful marriage? What am I trying to accomplish with my budget? What does success in the area of physical fitness mean to me? How can I find ways to enjoy eating healthy foods? These are great questions to get the juices flowing. I normally ask unhelpful questions like, Why does my life suck so much? I also like the idea of a quarterly journal since the same questions must be asked over and over in order to get to where you want to be.

Review by JN, California
I have this book!!! Time to purchase the other!!!! Wow it’s been almost a year!!!! Order now!!! You don’t want to miss out on this great book, that has truly helped me keep/put things into perspective!!!! This journal has been a desire of my heart. It is making me think about all aspects of my life, and even has Biblical Scriptures. Ive been looking for something like this for a Very Long Time. Place your orders NOW!!